There will always be difficult people. There will always be people that throw negative vibes onto you and you’ll have to deal with it. There will always be criticism, everywhere. There will always be people who find faults in it. It doesn’t matter how you choose to live your life, whatever you do, someone will judge you for it. I’ve noticed that not everyone is going to like you. In fact, some people will positively hate you and go out of their way to sabotage your life.

What did I do?

To be honest, sometimes I feel tired & stress over all these. But I always bear in mind ‘it will be your problem if you let it be.. don’t waste your energy on them..’ I’ve been dealing with quite number of people/situations where it made me sick of it and sometimes I wondered why.. I tried to find reasons while my minds play tricks on me. It’s inevitable. I tried not to focus on it, but I’m concerned. I got confused most of the time, whether to trust or distance myself from the unhealthy stereotypes. Maybe things will change in the future. Maybe they won’t.

I distanced myself. At least I won’t be trapped with the dramas. I learned that strength & patience are needed when you’re in the toughest situations. Unhealthy feelings inside seeing those people are against you for no reasons. Just have courage to move on politely & remain calm (though sometimes it doesn’t work that way). Postivity keeps me going (for some people, I’m too positive. For some people, I’m not positive enough). I remained silence & of course it hurts most of the time. But this is reality world.

“No calamity occurs, but by the permission of Allah, and whosover believes in Allah, He guides his heart. And Allah is the All-Knower of everything. [64:11]

It’s either you run or embrace it. I pray that Allah give us peace & happiness through our lives so we wouldn’t have time for causing trouble to anyone’s life.

Till then,

Lisa xo