Hello peeps! It has been a long time since I’ve written anything on my blog. So today, i just need to express something. Okk let’s begin!

Bismillah,

No matter what happens, there is always something positive that you can take out of every ended relationship.  If it lasted seven years or four months, that other person you connected so deeply with has taught you something.  So what have I learned in my last attempted relationship?

The most important thing I learned was how damaging and unreasonable being so guarded is.  Yes, it is absolutely hard to not be that way after you get your heart broken, but you are limiting yourself to so many things.  I learned, and I keep learning, that you can move on if you want too.  It’s better to give someone a chance and know than to just keep quiet and wonder.  Nothing is really holding you back but yourself.  Of course there is always that risk of you getting hurt again, but there’s an even bigger risk that you’re going to be missing out on something that has the potential to be amazing.

Even if this relationship didn’t go the way that I wanted it too, I’m proud of myself for being able to actually move on. I know now that I’m capable of doing so and when the time is right I’ll find someone again. It’s been said that life begins at the end of your comfort zone.  For most of my teen/adult life, I’ve been confortable with someone else by my side. Even though it’s hard at times and I honestly do get lonely.  I feel like I can start over now and be ok.  I know I’m going to be ok.

Lisaxoxo