Hi readers. 

I have been so slow at updating my blog recently. I am too busy with work. I have no time to write. Today I reflected on myself. Thinking about the things my friends do to me. I am thankful for the friends who are there with me throughout my journey. I am surrounded with love. I always feel like I am alone most of the time. But I forgot that I am appreciated by many. Honestly. Ok let me list down many things about it.

My best friends mean the world to me. They were there for me. I was blinded with my own shadows. I am thankful for the friends who offer emotional support, who came to see me when I feel like I have nobody, helped me with my studies, taught me the things I do not understand, cook, help me do my work, choose my outfit, bring food, get the things I need or want and many other things. I barely express my gratitute but I am thankful for this blessing god gave me. I will forever feel thankful. Thank you for accepting me at my worst and my best. I have many great friends, and I know that, even if they do not talk that often to you, does not mean that the friendship is less meaningful. I learnt that everyone has a life that they have to keep up with. Thank you Allah. Till then.

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Lisaxoxo

Hello peeps! It has been a long time since I’ve written anything on my blog. So today, i just need to express something. Okk let’s begin!

Bismillah,

No matter what happens, there is always something positive that you can take out of every ended relationship.  If it lasted seven years or four months, that other person you connected so deeply with has taught you something.  So what have I learned in my last attempted relationship?

The most important thing I learned was how damaging and unreasonable being so guarded is.  Yes, it is absolutely hard to not be that way after you get your heart broken, but you are limiting yourself to so many things.  I learned, and I keep learning, that you can move on if you want too.  It’s better to give someone a chance and know than to just keep quiet and wonder.  Nothing is really holding you back but yourself.  Of course there is always that risk of you getting hurt again, but there’s an even bigger risk that you’re going to be missing out on something that has the potential to be amazing.

Even if this relationship didn’t go the way that I wanted it too, I’m proud of myself for being able to actually move on. I know now that I’m capable of doing so and when the time is right I’ll find someone again. It’s been said that life begins at the end of your comfort zone.  For most of my teen/adult life, I’ve been confortable with someone else by my side. Even though it’s hard at times and I honestly do get lonely.  I feel like I can start over now and be ok.  I know I’m going to be ok.

Lisaxoxo